#1 - Have an affair! (II Samuel 11-12)
#2 - Refuse to run from tempting situations! (Genesis 39:1-12, I Corinthians 6:18)
#3 - Look at LOTS of porn! (Job 31:1)
#4 - Connect with “old flames” through online social networking and then convince yourself it is ok because you aren’t actually doing anything wrong!
#5 - Refuse to talk to your spouse about issues that make you angry…just bury them and let a huge pile build up so that you can explode irrationally on them when they totally do not expect it. (Ephesians 4:25-27)
#6 - Have an affair!!!
#7 - Make sure you spend lots of person time with the same person of the opposite sex that you are not married to…and when confronted on it say, “It’s business.”
#8 - Make “innocent” remarks to an attractive person of the opposite sex such as, “I wish I had met you before I had gotten married.”
#9 - Put an ad for yourself on an internet dating site…even though you are married…just to see what type of interest you could create!
#10 - Compare your spouse with other people OFTEN and convince yourself that you didn’t get God’s best when you agreed to marry him/her.
#11 - Have an affair!!!
#12 - Take your cues about sexual morality from Hollywood and your “friends” rather than God’s Word. (John 14:15)
#13 - Begin to believe that your spouse’s main mission on this planet should be to meet your needs…and when they don’t then justify trying to get your needs met elsewhere.
#14 - Fantasize often as to what it would be like to be with another person other than your spouse.
#15 - Be willing to sell out years of marriage, the respect of your children and your character for an orgasm.
Like I said…we will be dealing with this on Sunday…because I am SICK AND TIRED of seeing marriages being destroyed and the church remaining silent about it.
Sunday’s message is not going to be for the faint of heart…but I believe that Jesus is going to use it to save marriages (and future marriage for you singles) from A LOT OF PAIN and FRUSTRATION!
See you on Sunday!